For those that don't know, Down Syndrome is a genetic condition in which a person has 47 chromosomes instead of the usual 46. Those that have it will typically learn a little slower and may have other problems that come with it. Before Amanda came into my life, I knew nothing. To be honest, I knew nothing about any disability. It was all foreign and a little scary to me. The unknown always is. But, when my sister was born, a new world opened up before my eyes.
People with disabilities are no different then those without. When I was a senior in high school I had the wonderful opportunity to participate in a special needs youth group. We all had a "buddy" and would go each week to hear a lesson then participate in some sort of activity. My buddy taught me more then I ever would have dreamed! Not only could she show me up on the dance floor, but she had a rock solid testimony. She knew she was "different", but it didn't matter to her. She is a chosen daughter of the most high. No matter what someone said or how they may look at her, she was a daughter of God!
There is a song by Carol Lynn Pearson that literally brought me to tears the first time I sung it with the special needs group. It is called "I'll Walk With You".
If you don’t walk as most people do,Some people walk away from you,
But I won’t! I won’t!
If you don’t talk as most people do,
Some people talk and laugh at you,
But I won’t! I won’t!
I’ll walk with you. I’ll talk with you.
That’s how I’ll show my love for you.
Jesus walked away from none.
He gave his love to everyone.
So I will! I will!
Jesus blessed all he could see,
Then turned and said, “Come, follow me.”
And I will! I will!
I will! I will!
I’ll walk with you. I’ll talk with you.
That’s how I’ll show my love for you.
Christ loves everyone. He is the perfect example of how to love. The first time I saw someone look at my sister funny, my hackles flew! My thought was "how dare they!" After taking a step back, I realized that I had done the same thing once before. It took me having my dear sister to really see that everyone is the same. We are all sons and daughters of a loving Heavenly Father. He is not a respecter of persons. He loves each of us individually and infinitely.
I love my sister. She is the world to me. She may not learn as fast as other children, may not be able to talk yet, may not even be potty trained yet, but she is perfect! Amanda loves everyone the way Christ does. There is no discrimination. A goal I have set for myself is to see everyone the way my sister does. Treat them the way Christ would if he were around. "Jesus walked away from none. He gave his love to everyone. So I will!" I will! Will you?
